Lately, I’ve been talking a lot to friends and new friends, women and men alike about emotions. Some of my male friends take a very rational position to what I tell them. They try to find explanations, analyse it and propose solutions, while comparing my problems with their previous experiences, and telling me how they went out of it. Most women, on the other hand, bring a more empathetic view to it. They do not try to get the truth and give me their solutions, they mostly accompany me in my feelings, share them and help me going through them, for me to understand them, while giving me hope by showing the nice colours in my windy emotional painting.
Today, in the gym after I came back from swimming, they were playing in the changing rooms a song by Noah and the Whale called “Blue Skies”.
This is a song for anyone
With a broken heart
This is a song for anyone
Who can’t get out of bed
I’ll do anything
To be happy
Oh cause blue skies are coming
But I know that it’s hard
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